Dr Martha Tara Lee

Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara of Eros Coaching has been working with individuals and couples to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives since 2009. She has worked with a lot of couples (international and local) who have unconsummated marriage; men and women with sexual inhibitions and sexual desire discrepancies; men with erection and ejaculation concerns; as well as with GLBTQQ and kink folks.

Since 2011, Dr. Lee has been (and still is) the only certified sexuality educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Southeast Asia. Eros Coaching became an AASECT CE Provider in July 2017, and Dr. Lee also became an AASECT certified sexuality educator supervisor in July 2018.

A born and bred Singaporean Chinese, Martha welcomes individuals as well as couples of all sexual orientations, and is available via Skype or face-to-face in Singapore. Martha speaks English and Mandarin. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40’ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She is the author of 4 books including Orgasmic Yoga and a certified Laughter Yoga leader.


Sex is many things including serious, sensitive, and sacred. We get scared of sex and sexuality, and of feeling too much or being out of control. We need to find a way not to be scared of feeling, of pleasure, and of being silly.

We have simply forgotten how to play and how important it is to keep playing. In our pursuit of the sacred and profound, we might have even forgotten how to lighten up. Sex is many things – and fun is one of them!

In this session, Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching will facilitate laughter, fun, play, and humor through multiple exercises to demonstrate how faking it or feeling is not a bad thing. There will be breakout rooms use and paired work option available. Come back to play and the pleasure of play.